Growing up can be hard. Whether you identify as LGBTQIA+ or are questioning how you feel, you’ll want a network of support. You might face challenges at home, at school, or in the community. Youth camps and support groups can connect you to people who care. Mental health counselors and housing programs can help, too. 

If you’re a parent or guardian of an LGBTQIA+ youth, The Coming Out Handbook can help. This guide can help you understand gender and sexual identity. Your family might benefit from community groups and advocacy programs. They promote the well-being and inclusion of LGBTQIA+ youth.
 

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How to cope with bullying or harassment

Bullying is an unfortunate reality for many school-age children. If you think your child is a target, in person or online, consult these resources.

STOMP Out Bullying
Gives resources and support for young people facing bullying, including a HelpChat Crisis Line. Visit STOMPOutBullying.org.

StopBullying.gov 
Offers information on preventing bullying and resources for LGBTQIA+ youth and families. Visit StopBullying.gov.

Additional Resources

Gay-straight alliances (GSA)
Your child’s school may already have a GSA. This is a student-run or community-based club that gathers LGBTQIA+ and allied youth. These clubs create safe spaces for students to discuss sexual orientation and gender identity issues. If your child’s school doesn’t have one, the ACLU and Genders & Sexualities Network have guides on how to start one.

Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)
Supports LGBTQIA+ youth and their families, and shares tips on handling bullying. Visit PFLAG.org.

The Trevor Project Provides crisis help and resources for LGBTQIA+ youth, including bullying support. They also publish The Coming Out Handbook. Visit the TrevorProject.org.

 

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Customer service can help you get the care you need. Call the number on the back of your Blue Shield member ID card. Our representatives can help you find providers who understand LGBTQIA+ needs. They'll explain coverage, give guidance around preventive screenings, and more.

Programs & social support

Findhelp offers resources that are either free or reduced cost. Resources include financial help, food pantries, and medical care. Search by ZIP code and then enter “LGBTQIA+” into the next search bar.

National hotlines

LGBT National Help Center
(888) 843-4564
Coming Out Support
(888) 688-5428
Youth (age 25 and younger)
(800) 246-7743
Senior (age 50+)
(888) 234-7243
One-to-one online chat
Trans Lifeline
(877) 565-8860

Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Call or Text “START” to 988

The Trevor Project for Youth: Reach a Counselor
(866) 488-7386
Text “START” to 678678

Domestic Abuse
(800) 799-7233
Text “START” to 88788

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